I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist and the founder of Los Gatos Sex Therapy, a private practice that specializes in intimacy issues.

For the last 15 years, I’ve worked with couples on all kinds of things related to sex and intimacy, including mismatched desire levels, lack of communication around their sexual issues and infidelity.

My passion for helping others came from my upbringing. I was raised in very conservative household and got some really mixed messages about sex, relationships, and love growing up. I was also a firm believer in the “happily ever after” myth.

I married my highschool sweetheart and for almost 30 years we’ve had a very happy marriage, and have added four crazy and amazing kids to our family.

Being in a decades-long marriage — and having four kids within five years — definitely comes with its fair share of struggles, and my husband and I are no stranger to them.

We know firsthand how hard it can be to keep the spark alive when there is SO MUCH LIFE going on all around you.

There’s work, kids, household responsibilities, family, friends, and a million other things to schedule and take care of — and it can be so easy to let sex fade away…

…even when your love for your spouse or partner is still very much there.

But remember that there once was a time that you actually ENJOYED sex?

Chances are it was earlier in life before all of the to-do lists came into play, before kids, and before everything in life just became too much.

No matter what made your desire dwindle, the fact remains that your desire for sex was there.

The great news is that it CAN come back! You CAN reclaim your connection with your partner, build deep emotional and sexual intimacy, and have a lively sex life that is enjoyable, fun, and HOT.

Seriously, you can!

My mission now is to help as many couples  as I can achieve what I’ve seen so many of the clients in my private practice achieve: a deeply satisfying connection with their partners and a sex life that they not only love, but have designed.

If you’re ready to deepen the connection with your partner and enjoy sex again, then I can’t wait to show you how.